Women, abuse, and violence
Recently, a group of women from Arise Christian Church attended a Women's Conference sponsored by the Latino/Latina Studies Program at Asbury Theological Seminary - Orlando. Maria, a member of our church and Children's Ministry Leader, wrote a note on facebook that "every woman should read."
Our 2nd guest speaker, a Psychologist talked about Violence/Abuse as the "Thief of your Identity" (wow!)
These are signs of an abusive husband/boyfriend:
-He is posessive and jealous
-He demands a lot of time and attention
-He is explosive and impulsive
-He wants you to depend on him (for money, transportation, etc.)
-He is suspicious, and very critical
-He is not flexible, and hard to please
-He blames others and does not assume responsibility for his actions
-He is sometime sweet and good
-He is friendly and respectful outside the home
-He minimizes what he has done/said
If you can identify with this, get help (see some agencies that can help at the end of the note)!
Domestic Violence is not just physical but also emotional, sexual, social, spiritual, financial and through the use of technology.
We are valuable women and need to realize that our worth is not in man's eyes but in our savior, Jesus who thinks we are a WORK OF ARTcreated by God to do good works !!! Works of art are to be valued, preserved, and not hurt....YOU, my friend are a beauiful work of ART!!! God bless you!!!
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1800-799-7233 www.ndvh.org
Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence www.fcadv.org
Legal resources: www.womenslaw.org
Wednesday, August 26, 2009 | 0 Comments
Get set!
At Arise Christian Church, we launched a 3 week campaign to coincide with our launch strategy. "Ready...Set...Launch!" was our 3 week theme for our 3rd Preview Service, 4th Preview Service, and our upcoming Launch Service.
Here is the powerpoint for "Set." While in the past I have done numerous powerpoints for Sunday morning, they have been designed for more of my teaching style, that allows audience input and participation. However, this powerpoint is actually my sermon, whereas I preached with this powerpoint presentation simultaneously.
Monday, August 24, 2009 | 0 Comments
100 Ways to Be a Better Leader
I came across this article entitled "100 ways to be a better leader."
Sunday, August 23, 2009 | 0 Comments
Pastor Sammy preaching clip
When someone tells you about a church or their church, many times the question is asked, "Who's the pastor there?" For a new church, this is certainly the case.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009 | 0 Comments
Successful leadership
As a young adult leader, I commonly get the suspicious eye from folks who wonder how I have succeeded in life. I don't say this boastfully, but I share this humbly, because truly, I give God all the praise. I want to be clear that when I use the word "success," I don't measure that by fame, wealth, and power. I think of success as accomplishing one's goals, personally growing and learning as a leader, and being able to "bear fruit" as a result.
Saturday, August 15, 2009 | 0 Comments
"That wasn't supposed to happen!"
Life many times takes unexpected turns. Here is a study we did @ Arise to wrestle with things in life that "aren't supposed to happen."
Tuesday, August 11, 2009 | 0 Comments
Twitter, Tweet, Twinkle,,,whatever
Ok, so I finally gave in to the Twitter hype.
Wednesday, August 05, 2009 | 0 Comments
The future is "at the hyphen"
This is a Resource Group I led/facilitated at the 2009 General Assembly of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Indianapolis, Indiana entitled, "The future is 'at the hyphen.'"
The Resource Group revolved around the Hispanic/Latino(a) experience in the United States, and how the Church is and/or is not responding to it.
This was a great time of sharing, learning, and healing.
Here is a description of the Resource Group:
In English & en Español
Coined by Justo Gonzalez, "at the hyphen" helps express the current state and future of Hispanic/Latino(a) people in the United States. Many Hispanic/Latino(a) children, youth, and adults born in the United States are struggling with their identity and language. Engage in a dialogue about this difficult, yet important topic.
(El dicho de Justo González "el futuro está en el guión" ayuda a expresar la condición presente y futura de la gente hispana/latina en los Estados Unidos. Muchos niños hispanos, jóvenes y adultos nacidos en los Estados Unidos están luchando con su identidad y lenguaje. Mantener un diálogo sobre este asunto difícil es un tópico importante.)
Wednesday, August 05, 2009 | 0 Comments